Make up your mood for a date
No gesture speaks the language of romance better than one specially made for it. When it comes to seducing a woman and leaving a great impact on her heart and mind, planning a romantic date without waiting for any special occasion can be the key. For dating, you don’t need a special occasion; you can create romantic moments on any ordinary day. To do this, you need to know about your lady, what she likes and dislikes, and how she would want the surprises to be.
It can be your choice, your way, but it must impress the lady of the day. The main thing to remember is what elements she likes to be involved in a date and how you would make her feel romantic on your date. Then create the best moments in your date.
You can take up activities that would make her feel special and loved that day. You would surely need time for preparation, but while preparing for a romantic date, you have to take care of a few things. You can take suggestions from your friends or relatives about making your date one of the best.
Contents
Make Her Feel Special
Do things that your date would adore: This is your turn to make this day special and memorable. Make your lady feel that she is the best thing that happened in your life.
Set things in an array: Plan the whole day accordingly. From morning to evening till night, you can plan activities to surprise your girl.
Plan according to the place: If it’s a calm garden, bring cherries, strawberries, or other food your lady likes. Bring a portable CD player or cassette player with your recorded voice or romantic music.
Capture the memories: Have a camera to capture the beautiful moments and keep them safe for the future. This day must be a remembrance of your love towards your date. Also, keep a few spare things and check the weather; in case the weather spoils, you should have the necessary items to safeguard your girl.
A candlelight date: Any girl would love a candlelight dinner with her favorite food items. Also, keep her favorite desserts for after the dinner. Do not forget to keep soft romantic music during the dinner.
Flowers
An element of her favorite flowers would be loved: Welcome your girl by presenting her with one of her favorite flowers. You can prepare the meal at your house, take her to her favorite restaurant, or order the meal from a good hotel.
Clean your place beforehand: If you have planned the date at your own house, clear all the mess and keep everything in its place. Your shoes, socks, pants, shirts, anything must not create a mess at your home. Take out some time to clean your abode.
Flirting in an Effective Way
Men and women flirt differently: They flirt differently and expect different results. If you are flirting to become good friends, you will pave the way for different opportunities for yourself.
Know your partner to the depth: To date somebody, you must know them before going out with them. While you are out, try flirting healthily so that this person does not feel unsafe or uncomfortable in your company.
Be confident in yourself: As you share glances together, you must be able to get the right expression that the other person has started liking you or not. They might feel it better to know you more.
Buy her a drink: If you think of buying a drink for a lady on a casual meeting, do not expect her to become your slave or fall for you right at that moment. Sometimes it gives a calm and sweet feeling to send someone a drink just because you adore that person’s beauty and would like to compliment her. In return, you will surely get a smile that may help add to a conversation.
On getting an invitation: If that girl likes to talk to you and share a few moments, do not focus on dating her at the very moment; instead, concentrate on the discussion. There are chances that the other person starts liking you, wants to meet again, and would like to talk more after this meeting.
Take the opportunity to observe each other: Before going out with that person, you must know with whom you are about to date and with whom you are going to share your precious moments.
Some Behaviour Codes
Avoid approaching two men or women at the same time: If you plan to approach two persons from the same group, drop that idea. Nobody will accept a proposal in which they will be called the second partner.
Don’t stay like a loser: If you want to win hearts, don’t show yourself as a loser to get pity and sympathy from others to make him/her your date. Act like a self-assured person who is in search of the right match to date.
Compliments: When you are about to compliment anybody, make sure it sounds genuine and real, not fake, to butter up that individual. Exaggeratedly praising somebody would make a mess in that situation. If you come across the best thing in that individual, accolade him/her regarding that.
Keep control over your hand movements: If you have a habit of putting your hand on somebody uninvited, try to lose that habit. Nobody would like this habit unless they have shown signals to accept it. Respect the other person’s space and do not embarrass her by being touchy repeatedly.
Give a lovely feeling to your date: Even if you are flirting, you must give a lovely and tender feeling to your partner. If she allows, you can ask for a light hug. Remember, she will notice each habit of yours and consider every action you take towards her.
What Women Should Not Do on Online Dates?
Things women must avoid doing: No boy is interested in knowing your life story while dating you online for the first time. If he asks, you can share a few points in short. Only if he asks you to meet and share your life story, then you can probably go ahead.
Tell about your family in short: If the man asks about how many members you have in your family, do not start talking about their professions at that very moment. Simply tell who all are there in your family.
Do not ask too many questions: If you keep asking many questions to your date, he will soon get pissed off and run away from the conversation. Make sure that you listen to him equally, and keep your sentences short.
Avoid lying to your date: May it be your marital status, looks, financial status, etc. You must not lie to your partner about anything. If he gets to know the truth about you from a third person, you will be embarrassed in the end.
Be honest, somebody likes you: Do not ever be dishonest to the person you are dating. Please know that someone out there likes you and possibly, you both can enter into a relationship. So always, be honest no matter what the circumstances are.
Do not show too much eagerness: If you show that you are so desperate to meet him, all efforts will fail. He will lose interest in you so quickly and will not find it exciting to talk to you more. Do not push the man to meet so early. Wait and know him first, then you can plan to meet.
Double Dating
It could be fun for you: If you find one more man to date with, you can make it a fun way for outing. It could lead you to make new friends and meet many new people, share cultures and views.
Compatibility: You can check your compatibility with both the persons you are dating. If one of them is not comfortable with you, there waits another option for you to try on. This way, you will also not feel nervous about dating.
Let your date know you: Double date enables your partner to know you more from your friends. It would be better to invite your couple of friends, who can tell much good about you, on your date. Your date will also get a clue about what type of friends you make and what type of people you hang around with. What company you have among friends, these things matter a lot for him to know about you. You will also get to know how your date reacts in front of your friends. If you do not want to go on a date alone, double date gives a positive way to know the other person better.
Dutch Dating
A transparent date: On a Dutch date, each person pays his part of expenses when you are on a date. If both parties are new to each other, this method proves to be the best.
If you are not comfortable with someone else paying for you: You can opt for this method for sure, as you have the full independence to save your respect if you do not want anyone else to pay for you. Independent women sometimes think this way, so it is a good option for them.
Do not impose your transportation responsibility on the male: On the very first date, try not to be dependent on the male to pick or drop you. You can take this opportunity for the next date, where you can ask your date to pick you and you both can go along for a date.
Dutch dating is comfortable: There is no place for unnecessary expectations and both parties come happy and go happy, so it’s a casual method of dating. This method the Dutch people use, as they feel no one must go out with a feeling of being ‘owed’ if they have come on a date.
Conclusion
Dating a person has many aspects you can read or learn from anywhere. This guide is special because you will get the precise answer to all your questions regarding dating someone. Out of so many people, very few leave a positive impact on our mind and heart. This may pave the way for us to make good relations. We get to know about people’s cultures, habits, behaviors, good or bad. This helps us choose the best ones for ourselves. By reading this guide, you can probably know how to change your attitude towards a date and what extra efforts you must put in making your date a successful one. Follow the instructions earnestly, and you will achieve a great goal of your dream partner. Reading habits will enhance your knowledge as well. Keep dating.
Dr. Amanda Stone is a renowned psychotherapist and BDSM educator with over 15 years of experience in the field of human sexuality. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and has dedicated her career to exploring the intersections of mental health, sexuality, and spirituality. Dr. Stone is a passionate advocate for the healing potential of BDSM and regularly conducts workshops and seminars to educate individuals and couples on safe, consensual, and spiritually enriching BDSM practices.